Welcome to *MY AFFAIRS*

I’ll be educating you guys on how we can strengthen our marital life and what marriage entails, and also how to fix some marital issues and relative issues…………

Let me start today by letting you know the essentials of marriage;

Firstly,the connection between you and your partner must be strong enough and this will serve as a foundation upon which other elements will be built. In a situation whereby the husband and wife are not very intimate or close, they both are risking things, which they might eventually regret, the moment kids start to come into the picture. The need to seek the help of professional would be needed inorder to avoid loosing something important in that marriage. This intimacy is not only limited to marriage, however, it should be experienced within the context of a parent-child relationship or strong-siblings relationship.

Also, the desire to marry should not be based on just this intimacy between you and your partner, I believe, it should be based on commitment. Commitment seem to me as the act of choosing a partner for life. This implies for your total loyalty to your partner, ensuring trust which strengthen the marriage so much. This commitment also implies an unconditional acceptance of your partner (flaws and perfection). Though, men have the highest tendency to not stay committed because of some pride and ego they possess naturally, your commitment shows your level of self-esteem .Even in cases of “what you order vs what you get” You still have to be loyal except the marriage is a violent one, then a divorce will be advisable

Moreover, Giving is not often paid attention to, yet I think it is an important way to grease one’s marriage, When you exchange gifts and present on ordinary days not special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. Exchanging gifts is also a way of expressing love to your partner. This also is very essential in building a marriage.

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26 thoughts on “Welcome to *MY AFFAIRS*

  1. This write up explains better how an healthy relationship could be maintained and practiced by two lovers.
    You’ve really done well

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  2. This is an inspirational write up which any relationship that is intended to last forever must abide with. Keep this up

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